The true meaning of friendship, friends are suppose to stick together, ride or die not use someones fame as a levarage for their own personal gain.... Can you blame certain celebritys for being the way they are, I cant.
I see everyone as human, not a celebrity or someone who can help me or someone who can provide for me but rather a regular person who has emotions, goals,dreams just like all of us... For rabbi smuley to do what he did has no forgiveness,Please do not believe that Rabbi Shmuley is fulfilling a promise to a friend who wanted to be heard. That is not what this book is about. The Rabbi has two agendas here: 1. to strike while the iron is hot and make as much money as he can from the renewed interest in all things Jackson a mere three months (to the day) after his death, and 2. to exact a kind of revenge for feeling, at the end of their friendship, that Mr. Jackson had made him feel he had wasted his time as a kind of spiritual counselor. His feelings are hurt. I understand this. But his payback is unconscionable and ungodly.
He gets on tv friday and states he wont profit from this book its going to charity, I personally feel it should go to the family,his children. I believe in Karma and He will get his. He wasnt a friend but someone just like the others profiting from someone who had a heart of gold, I saw his personal videos and I can say that he was a human being, Ive always knew that since i was little watching his videos,
I ask anyone looking at this blog to boycott rabbi smuley book because all your doing is helping him get rich..Please do not buy this. Get it from the library, or find your nearest reference library that has it, and photocopy the pages on which Mr. Jackson is quoted.
ANd if rabbi is looking in Kiss my ass because you will fall down father than jesus did.....Im disgusted and angry by these idiots trying to make a profit,and I say these because others are doing the same thing...
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Sunday, September 27, 2009
Monday, September 14, 2009
Can we please be civilize people
Okay just like all of yall im mad at kanye for his behavior but enough is enough already if you choose not to buy his music im cool because honestly i dont pay for music when i get it for free, but to go as to boycott this is 2 far. Taylor has moved on so out of respect for her lets keep it moving, there is so much mayhem in the world we dont need to fall into the bullness.
Patrick died im like wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww i remember dirty dancing and i decided to take dancing because i wanted to dance like him. This brother has issues his lewd is going to take him to a place where he wont come out alive...
my heart goes to annie les family, i dont understand why there isnt cameras in the building where anyone can take shit from the lab. I hope they find the killer and bring that person to justice.
So today i go in to the hospital and was told i have a pulmonary embolism , I am cool while my collegues are freaking out including my child,I look at it like this my day will come eventually and if I die I lived a good life if i had to do it again I wouldve pursued my acting more and not allow people to try to dim my light like so many have done so many times because of the foolishness called envy and jealousy.
People can be so heartless, not giving a care because they are miserable themselves and want to inflict pain because to them thats their strength when in reality its a cop out. Greed and hunger is also a phase that will take you down hill.
anyway im out i have a headache i need sleep.
Patrick died im like wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww i remember dirty dancing and i decided to take dancing because i wanted to dance like him. This brother has issues his lewd is going to take him to a place where he wont come out alive...
my heart goes to annie les family, i dont understand why there isnt cameras in the building where anyone can take shit from the lab. I hope they find the killer and bring that person to justice.
So today i go in to the hospital and was told i have a pulmonary embolism , I am cool while my collegues are freaking out including my child,I look at it like this my day will come eventually and if I die I lived a good life if i had to do it again I wouldve pursued my acting more and not allow people to try to dim my light like so many have done so many times because of the foolishness called envy and jealousy.
People can be so heartless, not giving a care because they are miserable themselves and want to inflict pain because to them thats their strength when in reality its a cop out. Greed and hunger is also a phase that will take you down hill.
anyway im out i have a headache i need sleep.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
the VMAS
MAdonna have you been looking in my blog, because those sounded like my words but in truth I want to thank her because she spoke the truth and I guess one of the reasons why i admire marge so much...
Like I stated previously on my blog this man was more human than you and I and the media cruxified him as though he was the messiah. Janets preformance made me proud as a mother because for her to do this for him took alot out of her she gave her best preformance she has my respect and admiration.
Ever since kanyes mom passed away he has been acting like a fool, what he did was uncalled for his apology came a little too late, he was apologetic when he came on that stage and take taylors moment. He was wrong for that Its ashamed that someone who is so talented can be such an asshole, for beyonce to clean up kanyes mess shows that she is a classy woman and kanye is still a person who wants attention, I will never support such an ass and this type of behavior shouldnt be tolerated by any artist or venue.
Lady gaga reminds me off a modern grace jones love her, pink shes my girl love her,my son who is 15 said how can someone who is suppose to be a role model be an ass, my reply to him was the industry made him into it because he feels he can disrespect any one if i was there i wouldve thrown eggs at kanye and his bald chix amber rose......Vmas need to ban him forever this should apply to any artist who wants to act ghettoo,AS a black woman im ashamed of kanye for his lack of compassion and humanity which he clearly doesnt have.
Janice and tyra need to squash it already, Janice your the orginal Diva LOVE YA MAMA
Like I stated previously on my blog this man was more human than you and I and the media cruxified him as though he was the messiah. Janets preformance made me proud as a mother because for her to do this for him took alot out of her she gave her best preformance she has my respect and admiration.
Ever since kanyes mom passed away he has been acting like a fool, what he did was uncalled for his apology came a little too late, he was apologetic when he came on that stage and take taylors moment. He was wrong for that Its ashamed that someone who is so talented can be such an asshole, for beyonce to clean up kanyes mess shows that she is a classy woman and kanye is still a person who wants attention, I will never support such an ass and this type of behavior shouldnt be tolerated by any artist or venue.
Lady gaga reminds me off a modern grace jones love her, pink shes my girl love her,my son who is 15 said how can someone who is suppose to be a role model be an ass, my reply to him was the industry made him into it because he feels he can disrespect any one if i was there i wouldve thrown eggs at kanye and his bald chix amber rose......Vmas need to ban him forever this should apply to any artist who wants to act ghettoo,AS a black woman im ashamed of kanye for his lack of compassion and humanity which he clearly doesnt have.
Janice and tyra need to squash it already, Janice your the orginal Diva LOVE YA MAMA
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Here is something worth reading
i havent wrote much been busy with work,school etc..... If i dont respond probably its because im in some hospital with ivs stuck in my body due to my stubborness and jarett your going to kick me sideways just make sure you have the machine to bring me back, and dont take me off the machine, under no circumstances....and i am of sound mind some of yall are thinking okay this chic is insane but making my wishes here as well as paper people tend to read my blog so they can print it and give it to the docs....
anyway hope you guys have a blessed week
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/new-chapter/200908/color-preferences-michael-jackson-and-the-love-self
I read it and have to say i Love ms colar shes on point
Color Preferences, Michael Jackson, and the Love of Self One component of my recovery from addictions is accepting myself.
A couple weeks ago, after watching an MSNBC segment on Harvard's Implicit Aptitude Test (IAT)^, I jumped at the opportunity to try it. After sifting through the different options, I decided to take the light skin vs. dark skin sample test. Once I finished it, my result was: Your data suggest a strong automatic preference for Dark Skin compared to Light Skin. I was absolutely stunned. I didn't know what the result would be, but I wasn't expecting that.
Recently I read a piece from author Kimberly Allers titled "Today I Cried for Lost Black Boys: Sadness for Michael". One line read: I will not rest until my little black boy, MY Michael, knows that his broad nose is beautiful, his chocolately brown skin is beautiful, and his thick hair is beautiful.
Some of the same reasons I've felt sadness about Michael Jackson's death are associated with why I was shocked about my IAT test result. I spent a number of years confused, uncomfortable, distressed, and otherwise unhappy about being black. The color of my skin, the size of my lips, the width of my nose, the texture of my hair - why, I thought, did God make me this way? If I had to be black, why couldn't I at least be light like my mom and my cousins? The difficulty I had reconciling my identity and race played a large role in developing an eating disorder.
And the eating disorder thing - I was already struggling with not fitting into a self-imposed "black mold". Then I have to go and get an eating disorder - and everyone knows black people don't get eating disorders. Except, apparently, some do.
A large component of my recovery from an assortment of addictive behaviors is learning how to accept myself. This includes being comfortable as a female, as a Christian, as a sexual being, comfortable with my body, comfortable as an African American - just comfortable with myself period. What a journey it has been. While I still struggle with it, I have definitely made progress. That is the time-, energy-, and sanity-effective thing to do. After all, the irony is if we spend tons of time and energy trying to be what we think others want us to be or what we think we're supposed to be, we're not able to just be. Obsessing takes over living, and the past and future eclipse the present.
So my heart hurts when I know that Michael Jackson struggled with who he felt he was supposed to be, who others felt he was supposed to be, what he should look like, what he should act like - in essence, who he was. His body dysmorphic disorder played a large role in his life, from what surgical procedures he had to what food he ate (or didn't eat). My heart hurts when I think of how many people there are who, while situations and manifestations are different, deal with some of those same underlying struggles.
I'm reminded of Dr. Kenneth and Mamie Clark's doll experiment in 1939 in which they asked black school children which doll they preferred and which doll looked most like them. The results showed that the kids often preferred white dolls to black dolls and connoted white as good and black as bad. I grew up in quite a different environment, yet I know that - as was demonstrated by my love of blonde Barbies and distaste for black Barbies - my doll results would've fit the norm. So from that perspective, I found the IAT result to be encouraging.
That doesn't make the result good or bad - it just is. Nonetheless, I believe it demonstrates that the girl I used to be - who would tuck in her upper lip to make it look smaller, pull her sweatshirt past her waist to minimize her body, soften her voice to seem less threatening, and in general, try to be what she thought others wanted her to be - is continuing to grow.
Allers' poem ends: Now ain't we bad? And ain't we black? And ain't we fine?
My ending would be: Ain't we ourselves? And ain't we comfortable being ourselves?
That's what I strive to be.
anyway hope you guys have a blessed week
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/new-chapter/200908/color-preferences-michael-jackson-and-the-love-self
I read it and have to say i Love ms colar shes on point
Color Preferences, Michael Jackson, and the Love of Self One component of my recovery from addictions is accepting myself.
A couple weeks ago, after watching an MSNBC segment on Harvard's Implicit Aptitude Test (IAT)^, I jumped at the opportunity to try it. After sifting through the different options, I decided to take the light skin vs. dark skin sample test. Once I finished it, my result was: Your data suggest a strong automatic preference for Dark Skin compared to Light Skin. I was absolutely stunned. I didn't know what the result would be, but I wasn't expecting that.
Recently I read a piece from author Kimberly Allers titled "Today I Cried for Lost Black Boys: Sadness for Michael". One line read: I will not rest until my little black boy, MY Michael, knows that his broad nose is beautiful, his chocolately brown skin is beautiful, and his thick hair is beautiful.
Some of the same reasons I've felt sadness about Michael Jackson's death are associated with why I was shocked about my IAT test result. I spent a number of years confused, uncomfortable, distressed, and otherwise unhappy about being black. The color of my skin, the size of my lips, the width of my nose, the texture of my hair - why, I thought, did God make me this way? If I had to be black, why couldn't I at least be light like my mom and my cousins? The difficulty I had reconciling my identity and race played a large role in developing an eating disorder.
And the eating disorder thing - I was already struggling with not fitting into a self-imposed "black mold". Then I have to go and get an eating disorder - and everyone knows black people don't get eating disorders. Except, apparently, some do.
A large component of my recovery from an assortment of addictive behaviors is learning how to accept myself. This includes being comfortable as a female, as a Christian, as a sexual being, comfortable with my body, comfortable as an African American - just comfortable with myself period. What a journey it has been. While I still struggle with it, I have definitely made progress. That is the time-, energy-, and sanity-effective thing to do. After all, the irony is if we spend tons of time and energy trying to be what we think others want us to be or what we think we're supposed to be, we're not able to just be. Obsessing takes over living, and the past and future eclipse the present.
So my heart hurts when I know that Michael Jackson struggled with who he felt he was supposed to be, who others felt he was supposed to be, what he should look like, what he should act like - in essence, who he was. His body dysmorphic disorder played a large role in his life, from what surgical procedures he had to what food he ate (or didn't eat). My heart hurts when I think of how many people there are who, while situations and manifestations are different, deal with some of those same underlying struggles.
I'm reminded of Dr. Kenneth and Mamie Clark's doll experiment in 1939 in which they asked black school children which doll they preferred and which doll looked most like them. The results showed that the kids often preferred white dolls to black dolls and connoted white as good and black as bad. I grew up in quite a different environment, yet I know that - as was demonstrated by my love of blonde Barbies and distaste for black Barbies - my doll results would've fit the norm. So from that perspective, I found the IAT result to be encouraging.
That doesn't make the result good or bad - it just is. Nonetheless, I believe it demonstrates that the girl I used to be - who would tuck in her upper lip to make it look smaller, pull her sweatshirt past her waist to minimize her body, soften her voice to seem less threatening, and in general, try to be what she thought others wanted her to be - is continuing to grow.
Allers' poem ends: Now ain't we bad? And ain't we black? And ain't we fine?
My ending would be: Ain't we ourselves? And ain't we comfortable being ourselves?
That's what I strive to be.
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