people question me on my faith and practice and some dont understand so heres the dvd so they can see for themselves why i love it so much and why i am much happier today than ive been in years.
http://www.sgi.info/mabl/sgi/popup/sgi_intro_en.html
copy and paste to your url and see for yourselves because i wouldnt trade it in the world......
About Me
- Mzjuicylippzz
- The Slopers Den, NYC, United States
- Giving you a in depth glance of me.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Monday, May 18, 2009
I have another retreat this weekend and I cant wait, It will be his first time there and for the most part were going to have our own room thank goodness while mookie has his by himself. Both mookie and him are anticipating this because theyve both had a tough week.
As for me I have to house shopping in the slope i dont want to move to another neighborhood, I want my garden.....
Thank goodnes I was able to sell one of my brothers car,I didnt want any reminders even though I have his audi I need to sell it, I hope my friend who is like a lil brother a member enjoys it.
I was sharing with a member how people need to stop snopping in other peoples relationship because all its causes is a receipe for disaster. Case in point this couple that I know personally recently broke up why because people were all up on their business. I was shocked and at the same time not surprised by the bullness in people. My take is simple just because your relationship didnt work out or because you dont have kids or havent been married qualifies you as therapist...Helloooooooo
That is why people are so stero typical about relationships, One can be happy in a relationship, one can find that good person, people need to get out their comfort zone and look not this ohhhh let him find me or let me chant aka pray about it, sorry but that wont work, until one has develop a relationship with oneself in other words love thy self, and take full responsibilty for thier own actions shit wont happen.
and what kills me is when a woman sees a man and throws herself at him expecting the dude to want her,sorry some dudes already label you by your looks,they way you present themselves.
Its sad to see these young chickens heads as well as these middle age women play games and act stupid because they feel they cant live without a man.
One thing ive come to realize that this shit exist in all races people tend to generalize black women but in this case that doesnt seem to be the case, its in asian,hispanics and white women that tend to act foolishly.
NOw you thinking and asking what about you, me well im melo until you piss me the fuck off and then i will aim for blood... Point Blank theres no thought process in my mind, I am like the lion king, whats mine is mine, house, kids, man and any person that tries to disrupt that will go face down with a knife attach to their back.
Family means alot to me, that is why i am who i am today. Stern and not afraid to speak the truth. people have their own feelings and personally i dont care, my concern is my family point blank....
As for me I have to house shopping in the slope i dont want to move to another neighborhood, I want my garden.....
Thank goodnes I was able to sell one of my brothers car,I didnt want any reminders even though I have his audi I need to sell it, I hope my friend who is like a lil brother a member enjoys it.
I was sharing with a member how people need to stop snopping in other peoples relationship because all its causes is a receipe for disaster. Case in point this couple that I know personally recently broke up why because people were all up on their business. I was shocked and at the same time not surprised by the bullness in people. My take is simple just because your relationship didnt work out or because you dont have kids or havent been married qualifies you as therapist...Helloooooooo
That is why people are so stero typical about relationships, One can be happy in a relationship, one can find that good person, people need to get out their comfort zone and look not this ohhhh let him find me or let me chant aka pray about it, sorry but that wont work, until one has develop a relationship with oneself in other words love thy self, and take full responsibilty for thier own actions shit wont happen.
and what kills me is when a woman sees a man and throws herself at him expecting the dude to want her,sorry some dudes already label you by your looks,they way you present themselves.
Its sad to see these young chickens heads as well as these middle age women play games and act stupid because they feel they cant live without a man.
One thing ive come to realize that this shit exist in all races people tend to generalize black women but in this case that doesnt seem to be the case, its in asian,hispanics and white women that tend to act foolishly.
NOw you thinking and asking what about you, me well im melo until you piss me the fuck off and then i will aim for blood... Point Blank theres no thought process in my mind, I am like the lion king, whats mine is mine, house, kids, man and any person that tries to disrupt that will go face down with a knife attach to their back.
Family means alot to me, that is why i am who i am today. Stern and not afraid to speak the truth. people have their own feelings and personally i dont care, my concern is my family point blank....
What drives women to give up jobs, leave friends and family, and take monastic vows in a faraway land? My visit to a Tibetan Buddhist nunnery in India provided some answers.
The pale faces of the women walking in and out of the dining hall of this Tibetan nunnery are distinctly un-Tibetan: they’re Australian, European, American, and Filipino. I get my bread and soup, then join the rest of the group in the sunny courtyard.
“Oh, I remember my first time,” says one woman with a smile. “I walked out thinking, oh, my God, what have I done?” The others laugh and nod in agreement.
I’m sitting with a group of Buddhist nuns, and they’re sharing their ordination stories. Typically, Asian women receive ordination when they are young and often have no choice in the matter. But these Western nuns have made a conscious decision. They are educated, have had careers, and some even have families and children. We are at Thosamling Nunnery in Sidhpur, nestled in the Himalayas a few kilometers away from His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s residence. This is the first and only Buddhist nunnery in India for Western nuns.
Finding Faith in India
Ani (Sister) Choekyi, a 26-year-old nun from Australia, was 21 when she arrived in India. After her ordination in Sydney, she’d gone back to her full-time job. “I had consciously made a decision to remain celibate, to pray morning and night, go to retreats, and focus on the Dharma [literally, “protection”; the Buddhist means of eliminating ignorance],” she says. But working — and working with non-Buddhist people in particular — made that a challenge. Ani Choekyi knew she had to find a way to focus completely on her Dharma, so she decided to travel to India.
Thosamling Nunnery and Institute was built in 2006, after Ani Sangmo, another resident, now 49, had spent several years as a nun in India and repeatedly found that Western women had fewer options and very different struggles than their Asian counterparts. The Tibetans, refugees in India, have to support their own communities and people, and they assume that Westerners are rich. While some Tibetan monastics are able to stay in monasteries and nunneries for free, Western monks and nuns have to pay for lodging and food. In places where Tibetans are charged, Westerners pay two or three times the rate.
Nuns must pay a very nominal fee to stay in Thosamling Nunnery; other women like me, who are interested in learning about the Dharma or in undertaking retreats, are welcome to rent rooms. Our fees help offset the costs of the nunnery.
Why Buddhism?
When at age 14 Ani Yeshe Chodron lost her father, she began to question the meaning of life. She left school at 15 and became a hippie. “I wasn’t just being self-indulgent or hedonistic,” she says. “I was really looking for a spiritual path. So I lived in communes and I tried yoga, and I tried vegetarianism, and I tried fruitarianism, and I tried drugs, and I tried boys, and I tried every extreme there is. And none of those things satisfied me in the long term.” At age 17, she came to India to explore a quasi-Hindu sect known for its free-love and free-drugs culture. It was in a bookstore in Nepal that she came across Reborn in the West: The Reincarnation Masters (Da Capo Press, 1996) by Vicki Mackenzie. The book steered her toward Buddhism, and she enrolled in several meditation retreats. Six years later, she was ordained in Australia.
For Ani Choekyi, it was also a book that made the difference. Longing for happiness in an unhappy life, one day she saw His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s face on a book titled The Art of Happiness. “Gee, that said it all,” she laughs. Plagued by questions about why things were as they were, she says, “The law of cause and effect was probably the thing that hooked me into Buddhism. If you do this, you’ll get this result. Logical.”
Dharma in the Daily Life
At any given time, Thosamling is home to about 15 nuns and the same number of non-monastic women, although there is room for 80 residents, and the nunnery temple can hold at least 120. The institute hosts classes for Buddhists — nuns, monks, and even lay practitioners — who want to learn the Tibetan language and the Dharma. Every day, the nuns get up before dawn, pray in the temple, and meet in the dining hall for breakfast. Some eat alone; some sit in groups and talk about their lessons. Others practice learning Tibetan with each other. And some, I discover after getting a stare but no verbal response to my small talk about the weather, are on a silent retreat that can last for several days and months.
Western nuns come after facing unique challenges in their own countries, where they’re often seen as escapists trying to run away from the responsibilities of a normal life. “Living in the West is a bit like living as a fish on the shore,” says Ani Sangmo, who was ordained at age 37 after having practiced Buddhism for seven years. “There are not so many places you can stay where you have the direct guidance from a teacher around you. It is so much different to live in India, close to the Tibetans, and study and practice in their environment. They help you and teach you not only the Dharma but also about the customs and their rich tradition, which is very interwoven with Buddhism.”
Going Home
“Sixty to seventy percent of Western monks disrobe because even though they have vows against going out and working in a lay job, they have no options,” says Ani Yeshe. “They’re basically almost held in contempt in the West, unfortunately.” But this, she says, is a good thing, because it makes them give up seeking praise and fame and forces them to look inside. “You know that it’s not about the outside,” she says. “It’s more about how much you’re torn about your own ego, your own delusions, your own pride. That’s the hardest battle.”
After finding little support in Australia, Ani Yeshe left her Dharma center, and with her robes and bowl, set out to find what the world had to offer. Every day, she’d wake up not knowing where she would sleep, what she would eat, what she would do. “I found that with that kind of surrender, there’s a certain kind of power that comes. . . . You find that your true home is in your heart and not in a place.”
Soon after this, HarperCollins offered her a chance to write a book about her life, which she did. Everyday Enlightenment: How to Be a Spiritual Warrior at the Kitchen Sink was published in 2006. She also started teaching the Dharma to people in Australia who were interested in Buddhism.
As nuns, Western women encounter some interesting reactions from people, both in India and in their home countries. People sometimes wonder if the nuns belong to cults; they’re sometimes regarded with awe, other times with suspicion; and more than one nun says she’s been wished good luck with her chemotherapy because of her bald head.
“I miss being invisible,” says Ani Yeshe. “When you’re a lay person you can go to movies — no one will blink. But when you’re a monk or a nun, you’re really obvious. They don’t see you anymore. They see the Dharma,” which can be a blessing. “There’s a lot of freedom to being a monk or a nun, because my relationships with people are much more pure. They know that I don’t want anything from them. I don’t want to manipulate them; I don’t want to possess them, and they trust me.”
Sex and Monasticism
One of the biggest challenges to being a nun is celibacy. Ani Choekyi was in a six-year relationship when she decided to become a nun. She was only 17 when she first started dating her then-boyfriend. But in a way, she’s thankful for celibacy. “I don’t feel obligated to do these things in society now because people can physically see that I’m out of the contest.” Ani Choekyi wanted to give her life to the Dharma. “In Buddhism, we think that if you take a lot of vows, it’s more powerful,” she says. “Everything you do is more powerful. So it’s like a pressure cooker. You have fewer options, and because there are fewer options, there’s more clarity, there’s more power, there’s more focus. It’s more intense.”
It’s also about declaring your faith, to yourself and to others, she says. “If I externally change my appearance, every time I get dressed, every time I look in the mirror, every time I look down, I’m reminded that I’m committed to changing my mind. Because if I don’t have that level of responsibility, I would easily rationalize my negative behaviors.” She doesn’t believe, however, that monasticism is for everyone, nor does she believe that someone is not a serious practitioner if he or she is not a monk or a nun.
“If the joys didn’t outweigh the sorrows, I would have given up long ago,” says Ani Yeshe. “When you know that this freedom of spirit is possible, when you know that this purity of mind exists and that you can experience it with your own heart, then to give up everything else is not so hard.”
The pale faces of the women walking in and out of the dining hall of this Tibetan nunnery are distinctly un-Tibetan: they’re Australian, European, American, and Filipino. I get my bread and soup, then join the rest of the group in the sunny courtyard.
“Oh, I remember my first time,” says one woman with a smile. “I walked out thinking, oh, my God, what have I done?” The others laugh and nod in agreement.
I’m sitting with a group of Buddhist nuns, and they’re sharing their ordination stories. Typically, Asian women receive ordination when they are young and often have no choice in the matter. But these Western nuns have made a conscious decision. They are educated, have had careers, and some even have families and children. We are at Thosamling Nunnery in Sidhpur, nestled in the Himalayas a few kilometers away from His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s residence. This is the first and only Buddhist nunnery in India for Western nuns.
Finding Faith in India
Ani (Sister) Choekyi, a 26-year-old nun from Australia, was 21 when she arrived in India. After her ordination in Sydney, she’d gone back to her full-time job. “I had consciously made a decision to remain celibate, to pray morning and night, go to retreats, and focus on the Dharma [literally, “protection”; the Buddhist means of eliminating ignorance],” she says. But working — and working with non-Buddhist people in particular — made that a challenge. Ani Choekyi knew she had to find a way to focus completely on her Dharma, so she decided to travel to India.
Thosamling Nunnery and Institute was built in 2006, after Ani Sangmo, another resident, now 49, had spent several years as a nun in India and repeatedly found that Western women had fewer options and very different struggles than their Asian counterparts. The Tibetans, refugees in India, have to support their own communities and people, and they assume that Westerners are rich. While some Tibetan monastics are able to stay in monasteries and nunneries for free, Western monks and nuns have to pay for lodging and food. In places where Tibetans are charged, Westerners pay two or three times the rate.
Nuns must pay a very nominal fee to stay in Thosamling Nunnery; other women like me, who are interested in learning about the Dharma or in undertaking retreats, are welcome to rent rooms. Our fees help offset the costs of the nunnery.
Why Buddhism?
When at age 14 Ani Yeshe Chodron lost her father, she began to question the meaning of life. She left school at 15 and became a hippie. “I wasn’t just being self-indulgent or hedonistic,” she says. “I was really looking for a spiritual path. So I lived in communes and I tried yoga, and I tried vegetarianism, and I tried fruitarianism, and I tried drugs, and I tried boys, and I tried every extreme there is. And none of those things satisfied me in the long term.” At age 17, she came to India to explore a quasi-Hindu sect known for its free-love and free-drugs culture. It was in a bookstore in Nepal that she came across Reborn in the West: The Reincarnation Masters (Da Capo Press, 1996) by Vicki Mackenzie. The book steered her toward Buddhism, and she enrolled in several meditation retreats. Six years later, she was ordained in Australia.
For Ani Choekyi, it was also a book that made the difference. Longing for happiness in an unhappy life, one day she saw His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s face on a book titled The Art of Happiness. “Gee, that said it all,” she laughs. Plagued by questions about why things were as they were, she says, “The law of cause and effect was probably the thing that hooked me into Buddhism. If you do this, you’ll get this result. Logical.”
Dharma in the Daily Life
At any given time, Thosamling is home to about 15 nuns and the same number of non-monastic women, although there is room for 80 residents, and the nunnery temple can hold at least 120. The institute hosts classes for Buddhists — nuns, monks, and even lay practitioners — who want to learn the Tibetan language and the Dharma. Every day, the nuns get up before dawn, pray in the temple, and meet in the dining hall for breakfast. Some eat alone; some sit in groups and talk about their lessons. Others practice learning Tibetan with each other. And some, I discover after getting a stare but no verbal response to my small talk about the weather, are on a silent retreat that can last for several days and months.
Western nuns come after facing unique challenges in their own countries, where they’re often seen as escapists trying to run away from the responsibilities of a normal life. “Living in the West is a bit like living as a fish on the shore,” says Ani Sangmo, who was ordained at age 37 after having practiced Buddhism for seven years. “There are not so many places you can stay where you have the direct guidance from a teacher around you. It is so much different to live in India, close to the Tibetans, and study and practice in their environment. They help you and teach you not only the Dharma but also about the customs and their rich tradition, which is very interwoven with Buddhism.”
Going Home
“Sixty to seventy percent of Western monks disrobe because even though they have vows against going out and working in a lay job, they have no options,” says Ani Yeshe. “They’re basically almost held in contempt in the West, unfortunately.” But this, she says, is a good thing, because it makes them give up seeking praise and fame and forces them to look inside. “You know that it’s not about the outside,” she says. “It’s more about how much you’re torn about your own ego, your own delusions, your own pride. That’s the hardest battle.”
After finding little support in Australia, Ani Yeshe left her Dharma center, and with her robes and bowl, set out to find what the world had to offer. Every day, she’d wake up not knowing where she would sleep, what she would eat, what she would do. “I found that with that kind of surrender, there’s a certain kind of power that comes. . . . You find that your true home is in your heart and not in a place.”
Soon after this, HarperCollins offered her a chance to write a book about her life, which she did. Everyday Enlightenment: How to Be a Spiritual Warrior at the Kitchen Sink was published in 2006. She also started teaching the Dharma to people in Australia who were interested in Buddhism.
As nuns, Western women encounter some interesting reactions from people, both in India and in their home countries. People sometimes wonder if the nuns belong to cults; they’re sometimes regarded with awe, other times with suspicion; and more than one nun says she’s been wished good luck with her chemotherapy because of her bald head.
“I miss being invisible,” says Ani Yeshe. “When you’re a lay person you can go to movies — no one will blink. But when you’re a monk or a nun, you’re really obvious. They don’t see you anymore. They see the Dharma,” which can be a blessing. “There’s a lot of freedom to being a monk or a nun, because my relationships with people are much more pure. They know that I don’t want anything from them. I don’t want to manipulate them; I don’t want to possess them, and they trust me.”
Sex and Monasticism
One of the biggest challenges to being a nun is celibacy. Ani Choekyi was in a six-year relationship when she decided to become a nun. She was only 17 when she first started dating her then-boyfriend. But in a way, she’s thankful for celibacy. “I don’t feel obligated to do these things in society now because people can physically see that I’m out of the contest.” Ani Choekyi wanted to give her life to the Dharma. “In Buddhism, we think that if you take a lot of vows, it’s more powerful,” she says. “Everything you do is more powerful. So it’s like a pressure cooker. You have fewer options, and because there are fewer options, there’s more clarity, there’s more power, there’s more focus. It’s more intense.”
It’s also about declaring your faith, to yourself and to others, she says. “If I externally change my appearance, every time I get dressed, every time I look in the mirror, every time I look down, I’m reminded that I’m committed to changing my mind. Because if I don’t have that level of responsibility, I would easily rationalize my negative behaviors.” She doesn’t believe, however, that monasticism is for everyone, nor does she believe that someone is not a serious practitioner if he or she is not a monk or a nun.
“If the joys didn’t outweigh the sorrows, I would have given up long ago,” says Ani Yeshe. “When you know that this freedom of spirit is possible, when you know that this purity of mind exists and that you can experience it with your own heart, then to give up everything else is not so hard.”
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Watching american idol
Im here watching american idol and i swear paula is lip synching because the cameras werent doing their usual close up and aside from she was great. 2 kudos now no doubt i will be nice because all i will say is that their played the fucked out. I know the recession is here but shit, please dont go on tour.......
My son is telling me he wants to celebrate his bday a day early with his friends instead of having a home BBQ he wants to go to his favorite sushi restaurant and go to the movies. I have a surprise for him aside from wat he was given already. He wants to do something for me but i told him someone has taken care of that. NO they didnt get rid of my lil kelly clarkson look alike NOW IM MAD SHE NEEDED TO STAY they should of gotten of that chris or that gay lost jonas brother aside from that im not watching idol at this point....lil kims new song needs work because tpain is doing more vocals than her and the video sucks, kim has better taste wth happen she better get the best producers, love the chix no doubt ...
in other news Maddoff is a whore cheating on his wife no surprise this is ongoing cycle as women age they let themselves go or dont have the energy or dont seduce theyre man that another female takes over sad but true........
more rain dammmmmmmm
I want a doggie ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
okay im off
My son is telling me he wants to celebrate his bday a day early with his friends instead of having a home BBQ he wants to go to his favorite sushi restaurant and go to the movies. I have a surprise for him aside from wat he was given already. He wants to do something for me but i told him someone has taken care of that. NO they didnt get rid of my lil kelly clarkson look alike NOW IM MAD SHE NEEDED TO STAY they should of gotten of that chris or that gay lost jonas brother aside from that im not watching idol at this point....lil kims new song needs work because tpain is doing more vocals than her and the video sucks, kim has better taste wth happen she better get the best producers, love the chix no doubt ...
in other news Maddoff is a whore cheating on his wife no surprise this is ongoing cycle as women age they let themselves go or dont have the energy or dont seduce theyre man that another female takes over sad but true........
more rain dammmmmmmm
I want a doggie ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
okay im off
Monday, May 4, 2009
This weather
Ive always been one who for the most part keeps things to her self and doesnt worry about shit because personally ive known that to every problem there is a solution. And of course you have individuals who have to be all up in the goods because they feel their opinion counts which in reality it doesnt because one has one life to live and one has to make choices whether they are good or bad. each of us goes through some storm in our lives and some may suffer defeat and others just give up. The essence of the creative life however is to persevere in the face of defeat and to follow the rainbow within your heart. Some thing ive come to learn as a buddhist. Indulgence and indolence are not creative, complaints and evasions are cowardly and they corrupt lifes natural tendency towards creation. The individual who gives up the fight for the creativeness is headed ultimately for the hell that destroys all life. At first i didnt understand what all that meant but as my faith and study grew I now know what it means. One has to do something and start something as one makes consistent efforts one begins to see the goals come into focus and then one discovers their mission.
I have to say this much its been 4 yrs and No amount of test can make me think twice about my practice and what it means to me.
Side note::::::::::::::} One thing Ive come to realize people need to stop trying to imitate or look up to others and seriously find their own strength, all this envious and jealousy doesnt get anyone anywhere first of all and secondly like I have always stated one can obtain the same lifestyle if they work hard for it meaning making sacrifies, Ive been making these sacrificies since 14 years old. People always envied me over stupid shit that to me isnt important, what is important to me is my relationship with my son. When one has a strong bond with family usually the family becomes prosperous and that is true in this case. All these material wealth that I have accumulated through out my lifetime are just unimportant but to some its means more to them than a family and that is the reason why some worldly people never become happy, As long as they even have those traits they will never achieve their goals. Some may disagree with this and their entitled to.
I cant believe I graduate next year and head on to med school wowwwwwwwwwwww
mookie will be in his second year and hopefully hell be driving his uncles car. It seems like yesterday he was in my arms, and today he carries me wow, I never forget when i swore that he will never miss anything, and so far ive given him the best life a mother can give their child, I love my child and he loves me back our relationship is so tight NO one can come between us, and this summer if he does great on his exams i will surprise him with a trip to Europe so we can see our friend/partner. And when he comes home today his mouth will drop when he hears mommy is now mirokos partner hell be happy :)
Cant wait till june I have so much activities going on it aint even funny between the yoga conferences, the girls night out, the morning salutation and kosen rufu ill be worn out not to mention, the preps and the business......
anyway im off Ill be back in a couple of days
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